AUG 31 — Dear Malaysia,
Today, you witness your 64th year of independence. In 16 days, you will celebrate the actual birthday of your name, which was coined in the year 1963. I may not have been there, my parents may not have been there as well, but you will be here as long as the world is still around.
You will be as sweet as you have always been, housing the bitterness of your children living within you.
What will you observe today, dear Malaysia? Most importantly, I do hope you'll still be called Malaysia, which will mean that Sabah and Sarawak are still part of you.
In fact, I hope every son and daughter of Semenanjung Malaysia would have realised that these states deserve more, if not as much as what Semenanjung has achieved all this while.
I grew up, knowing these two states only as holiday destinations I had to get to by plane. Lessons in textbooks were adequate only to teach me that they'd merged with "Tanah Melayu" later, but this was not enough to bridge the distance created by the South China Sea. I am sure I was not the only one who was as ignorant.
It is time we viewed our fellow countrymen in Borneo as equals. Sabah and Sarawak are valuable components.
Race relations? God I hope you've stood strong, dear Malaysia. How I've envisioned that today, people will not even bother with whether someone is Malay or Malaysian first.
I have no problems with someone professing that he is a Malaysian and not of any specific race. But as our country was built from the integration of many races, letting go of different cultural identities would be a big waste.
Money, or in this case, the economy, is the root of all evil. In my opinion, it is because of this problem that we Malaysians are so polarised and racially-sensitive.
I am hoping that by today, affirmative action will no longer be around (even though that is quite far-fetched) but I hope at least the abuse of it would have long stopped, and that we are one step nearer needs-based policies.
Oh and yes, Perkasa. Another thing — to hope for its abolishment is unrealistic. As long as there is a demand, there will be a supply. Still I personally hope that by today, considerate intellectual Malays will mean Perkasa is less a pressure group and instead has moved on to start educating and motivating the Malays to work hard for something; not to just subscribe to the laidback thinking that everything will be "delivered" to them from Putrajaya. Most of the time, the solutions can be found from within.
And to other unity-loving Malaysians, let us move on from just speaking about racial unity and start to do something about it. I've been called a racist Malay, but please, spend two months of your summer away from your home and family, serving Malaysian children of races other than yours, then we can talk.
Moving on to your political masters, dear Malaysia, I hope that by today, most of the dinosaurs would be cruising around the world rather than dictating our policies.
I have no problems with experienced leaders who want the best for their countries, including for the youths; yet most are too distanced from the ground (other Malaysians) and prioritise personal and family gains.
It is time for younger leaders to step up and lead the change.
But recently, I have noticed some sad truths. My generation is very idealistic (in a positive way), which is great. We hate corruption, dirty politics, the trampling of rights and rules and despise many more of the things our elders did.
But as the wager gets bigger, we selfishly do all the things we despise. This wager includes job placements, positions in society as well as money, which, in my opinion, translates to wealth and power in the bigger system.
We justify dirty politics by saying it is for the bigger cause. We backstab our friends with whom we share great ideas, for personal gain. Worse, we promote incapable friends instead of an acquaintance who deserves the position.
I swear I have not made these things up.
How, Malaysia? How can my generation, myself included, bring our idealism into the system, instead of the other way round? How can we prevent ourselves from doing the exact same things that we despise?
I got the chance to listen to this respected young leader who said that the best thing young people can do is to first enhance ourselves individually, before we even think of changing the system. Maybe that is the way to move forward, to equip ourselves with as much as we can, so that we can be what we want without participating in dirty politics.
Maybe we should start motivating our friends to equip themselves, so that if we have to nominate him or her, it'd be because he or she really is great, instead of resorting to the friendship sentiment.
Sounds clichéd, but that is the best I have for now.
Dear Malaysia, many changes will happen for you while you cry through the rains and shake through quakes. Thank you for being strong for all of us. May your sons and daughters soon find comfort in each other, in their journey to make you the best among the rest.
Happy 64th Independence Day, Malaysia, from exactly 10 years back.
* The views expressed here are the personal opinion of the columnist.